Don’t Wait for the Quiet
In going over some old
articles of mine from a few years ago, I came across one I had written on the subject
of quiet time. It resonated with me in this particular season of my life, and I
feel it is worth editing and reposting it, praying that it will be a help and a
blessing to my readers.
As the girls were growing up,
life was anything but quiet! As the sun peeked over the horizon, and the
morning light filtered through the window, the cares of the day began to press
in. A baby needing to be fed, a toddler crying, dishes to wash, baking to be
done, tidying, dusting, sweeping, home-schooling to be started for the day and
on and on it went.
Pretty soon, that much needed
time alone with God was pushed aside and the distractions of life took over. I
was always searching for that elusive 'piece of quiet' to sit and calmly take
in what God wanted to say to me for that day. And before I knew it, the sun was
setting, and another day had gone by without my soul being fed from the Word of
God.
I always excused my lack of attention
to studying the Word of God, to the fact that I didn’t have any ‘quiet’ to do
it in. And when the quiet finally came, after everyone was asleep and settled for
the night, I was just plain exhausted and longing for a peaceful, uninterrupted
night’s sleep. I didn’t have anything left in me to spend focused time with the
Lord.
But, over the years I have
come to realise that it is God that supplies the quiet, we just need to
supply the time. God doesn't expect us to come to Him with a quiet
spirit in order to have a quiet time.
We come to him with our cup
overflowing with confusion, worries, troubles, disappointments, and He
graciously and lovingly pours it out and fills our cup with His peace and love
and joy. He knows that life is busy and sometimes we're overwhelmed with our to
do list. But if we would just stop for a moment, give God some of our precious
time, He would bring the quiet that is needed into our hearts.
In looking back, I regret the
times I spent reading a novel while the kids were having an afternoon nap, when
I could have spent even a few minutes reading God’s Word and maybe some much
needed time in prayer.
Now, I’m not saying that every
moment free that you have, you are to spend in worship and quietness, alone with
the Lord. God wants us to enjoy simple pleasures and hobbies we may have. But
he also longs for us to give him a portion of every day, just sitting and
meditating on his Word. Learning from him, worshipping him, praising him.
Matthew 11:28-30
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden,
and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek
and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is
easy, and my burden is light.
Did you know that this hurry
and worry and exhaustion we experience in our day to day lives is nothing new? Over
2000 years ago, the Lord Jesus had to remind the people of that day to come unto
him and rest.
We are not the first generation
to struggle with this. You are not alone in finding time to rest and refresh. You
are not alone in the endless cycle of busyness and the difficulty it is to carve
out a few minutes in your day, dedicated to having a quiet time with the Lord.
Our quiet time is a gift from
God. He wants us to come alone into His presence and bring our cares to Him.
The quietness comes from our relationship with Him, coming to Him and letting
Him rearrange our thought processes. He calms the inner storms and brings His
peace, the peace that only He can give.
Sometimes we only have 5
minutes to give to Him, we pour out our cares and He pours in His peace. Other
times, we have an hour to give to God and these times can be so beautiful and
refreshing to our souls.
We need to remember that we
don't need to 'find quiet' in order to draw near to God, we just need to be
willing to come to Him with a humble heart and ask Him to bring the quiet that
we need so desperately.
It’s all in our attitude and
our willingness to take that first step. The step that says, “I’ll put down
my book for a few minutes, I’ll stop endlessly scrolling on my phone, I’ll
settle the kids down with a book or some activity, I’ll ignore my texts for a
few minutes” and take some time to spend with God. We have to make a choice
to come to him and rest.
I know for me, when the girls
were little, I would make excuses for not having a quiet time. It just wasn't
quiet. I thought I had to have quiet in order for God to hear me. God hears us
even in the middle of a cyclone and yes, sometimes it felt like that kind of
chaos.
It really is a heart issue.
Bringing our hearts in tune with God. Waiting on Him. Having an attitude of
humbleness and meekness. In the middle of all the clamour, calling out to Him
to bring His peace. We have to desire to spend time with him and make a choice
to sit down and learn from him, despite what is going on around us.
We need to stop what we’re
doing, and sit down, mentally and physically, whether it’s quiet or not, and
begin reading the Word and letting God speak to our hearts. Even a verse or two
can be meditated on all day long.
Regardless of what season of
life you find yourself in, whether you have small children running about, or
you’re busy with your career or maybe you have adult children like myself, it’s
so important to make time for God. It’s imperative that you force yourself, despite
how you’re feeling, to sit and listen to the Lord, resting in him, letting the
burdens slide off your weary shoulders, laying all your cares on him and letting
him refresh your soul.
1 Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon him; for he
careth for you.
I am blessed now to finally be
able to spend that hour alone with God, without distraction, but oh what peace
I could have enjoyed if only I had realised that I needed to give God my time
and He would have brought the quiet.
We are so blessed with the
ability, through technology, to be able to listen to the Bible being read aloud
as we go about our day. We are blessed with Godly music to listen to, to sooth
our souls. We are blessed with sermons we can listen to at the touch of a
button. I make use of these regularly, but it should never take the place of concentrated
time with Him.
It really is a privilege to be
able to spend time with God. It shouldn’t be a chore or a duty. It should be
something we long for and look forward to and can’t live without. It’s amazing
to think that the God of the universe, the Creator of the world, the Saviour of
mankind, seeks to have a close and intimate relationship with us, undeserving
sinners that we are.
We often quote this verse and
even know it as a song, but have you really thought about it in relation to
your quiet time?
Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and
his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
It really is true, that if we
seek him first, taking time to fellowship with him, he will take care of
everything. ALL these things. What things? The preceding verses speak of food
and drink and clothing, but I think it encompasses everything!
Taking time out to meditate on
His Word will change your days. It will bring perspective; it will bring peace
and comfort. It will give you direction and wisdom. You will still face difficulties
and trials, but you will have the calm assurance that you are facing them with
the Lord by your side.
Don’t wait for quiet to have a
quiet time. Take that first step and let God bring the quiet. Step out in faith
and rejoice in what he can do! Bring him the little that you have and watch him
multiply it!
You supply the time, and God will supply the quiet!
Hi Jillian, thank you for sharing. How much we miss when we don't take the opportunity early each morning with the Lord. How special that time spent alone with God is and how much it often helps us throughout the day. Often the scripture is exactly what we needed to face the day ahead. I am grateful we can rest in His promises to us - Isaiah 40:11 is a true blessing for Mothers with young children. Even amongst the busy-ness of the day meditating upon a single verse in a time of seeming chaos or struggle can bring peace and help. Blessings, Caroline xx
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