Don’t Stop
Praying
God is still
a miracle worker. God still answers the prayers of his people.
I felt I
had to sit down and write about the importance of being persistent in prayer in
light of some recent happenings.
The past
four years have been very difficult for us for many reasons. We have struggled through
financial hardship, challenging decisions that needed to be made and a myriad
of life’s trials.
Throughout
this time, we have continually brought our requests to the Lord, we have
pounded the very gates of Heaven, looking for answers, hoping for relief, praying
for guidance.
And yet,
God was silent. Sometimes it felt as if we were speaking into the air. We were
praying expectantly, sincerely, with what we were sure were pure motives and
yet God remained silent. The expected relief never came. We wanted a sign. Any sign.
A glimmer of hope. Just a glow from a flickering candle, piercing through the darkness,
letting us know our prayers were being heard and considered.
And yet,
instead of answers, instead of clear leading, we were met with silence.
Don’t get
me wrong, God still provided in so many ways but the answers to the big
questions remained unanswered.
As a busy wife,
mother and grandmother, who wears so many hats and many of them at once, I
often crave silence. I love to be alone in my study, pouring over a challenging
passage of scripture. I love to sit in silence on the rooftop, staring into the
changing colours of the sunset. Yes, I love my quiet, but one of the worst
feelings is when the silence comes from God himself.
So, what do
we do when we pray to God, especially when we are in desperate need of answers,
and we are met with silence?
Do we come to
the conclusion that God no longer cares for us? Do we begin to believe that he’s
not even listening?
There was a
Psalmist in the Bible who knew what it was like to cry out to God and be
greeted with silence. And yet, we see him do something that we, as believers,
often fail to do.
Psalm
42:11 KJV - Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted
within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of
my countenance, and my God.
From this
Psalm, we learn some important ways to approach God when we feel he is silent.
Did you notice
I said we “feel” he is silent? Because often the silence we think
surrounds us is only imagined. Sometimes we are guilty of filling our lives
with so much noise that we can’t even hear his voice because God often speaks
in whispers to our hearts.
Like
Elijah, the great prophet of old, we have to listen for that still, small
voice. (1 Kings 19:11,12) God’s silence did not mean his absence. He was
still there. And he was still speaking.
But, back
to our Psalm.
If you take
the time to read through the whole of Psalm 42, you’ll find the Psalmist speaks
about his soul longing after God. He mentions thirsting after God and yet in
the next verse we see his tears. It seems that one minute he’s happy and praising
God and the next he is downcast and miserable.
Sounds a
lot like me some days. Up and down like a yo-yo. It’s not a new thing this mixture
of emotions. People aren’t afraid to speak up about it nowadays, and neither
was this Psalmist from years gone by.
But what I
love about this particular Psalm is that he just kept seeking.
What is
your natural reaction when someone gives you the cold shoulder or ghosts you? It’s
to draw away. And yet, the writer of this Psalm did just the opposite. He felt
God was silent and yet it didn’t stop him from calling on God. He didn’t give
up. He kept in conversation with God. He kept the communication lines open,
just in case the call came through!
Another
thing he did was he remembered what God had done for him in the past. He
remembered praising God in the house of the Lord (vs 4).
And lastly,
he placed his hope and trust in God and chose to praise him. He didn’t place
his hope in his circumstances, as they were dismal, he placed his hope in God.
Psalm
42:11 KJV - Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted
within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health
of my countenance, and my God.
You see in
this verse the Psalmist having a little conversation with himself. I talk to
myself very regularly and so I find it very relatable to see this particular writer
asking himself these sad questions aloud and then cheering himself up by
reminding himself to hope in God. And that’s not all he did, he made a determination
to praise God. He made a choice to rise above his circumstances and choose joy.
Sometimes
you just need to have a little conversation with yourself and rebuke yourself for
your unbelief or doubt or fear.
So, what can
we learn from this Psalm when we feel God is silent?
We learn to:
1.
Keep
on seeking God
2.
Remember
what God has done in the past
3.
Place
your hope in God
4.
Praise
God no matter what
In a
nutshell, we keep praying! We keep seeking! We keep praising! We keep hoping!
What we
know of God’s character, we hold tight to. We let that anchor us until we hear
from him again.
God will
not remain silent forever.
The Jews experienced
400 years of silence in which the voice of God was not heard. But he was not
absent. And the silence ended with the coming of John the Baptist, a pivotal
point in history announcing the coming Messiah, Christ.
Now back to
my mention of answered prayers. In recent days, God has finally begun to answer
some of our prayers and a whole lot more of my own personal prayers. Prayers I thought
were going unheard. Prayers I almost gave up praying.
The Bible
reminds us to pray without ceasing (1 Thess. 5:17), this is a command,
it’s not optional. And so, despite the desire to give up, in obedience to God,
we continue calling out to him, daily, hourly.
My despair
at not getting answers in my time has resulted in answers I didn’t know were
possible. And they were in God’s perfect timing. Not my flawed sense of time
and action.
Having walked
with the Lord for many years, although I am far from being perfect and never
will be, and although I have failed in putting him first so many times, I have
come to know the character of God in a deeper way and with more understanding
as I grow in my relationship with him. And although I don’t always understand
his silence, I can always trust his character. He has a good track record. He
has proven over and over to be a faithful, loving God.
And
although I don’t always sense his presence when I can’t hear his voice, I know
that his silence doesn’t mean his absence. He is always with me, and he is
always working. Some of his best work is done in the dark.
Keep on
bringing your requests before God. Don’t stop praying. Don’t stop until the
victory comes and peace washes over your soul.
Don’t give
up. God will come through. Just like he always has.
If he has
done it before, he can do it again.
Make a choice
to keep coming before the Lord and don’t be afraid to bring the same requests
to him until you hear his voice, and he gives his answer.
As King
David determined in his heart, so should we.
Psalm
55:16-17 KJV - As for me, I will call upon God; and the LORD shall save
me. Evening, and morning, and at noon, will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall
hear my voice.
DON’T
STOP PRAYING!